So you think your intuitive? I Do!
You don’t think you’re intuitive? I still do. or....
Practicing Intuition
Almost all of us have had some experience with intuition, such as; getting
a gut feeling about someone you’ve met, knowing who’s calling
on the phone before you pick it up, a deja vu experience, knowing something
someone is about to say, or even knowing what’s in a gift before
you open it. These kinds of experiences, though fairly common, seem to
happen spontaneously and at random leaving us wondering what exactly happened.
This doesn’t need to be so.
My experiences researching and learning about intuition have shown me
it is something we can learn to use when we want to. We can learn this
in a way that convinces our rational minds it is real and reliable. But
what is intuition? My dictionary says it is: The act or faculty of knowing
or sensing without the use of rational processes; immediate cognition.
A more common definition is knowing something without the use of the five
known senses. I believe intuition is an innate human ability. Some people
may have more natural ability, like having a talent in music for example.
But we all have some talent.
So how do we get to the place where we can really use intuition? Like
learning any other skill, the most important part is practice. I know
this from experience, I am not a natural psychic. I knew no way of using
any ability I was born with. I did have a few interesting experiences
that made me sit back and wonder. From there I began to get curious. I
began learning about it, studying and experiencing it. Now I’ve had
enough experiences to know it’s real.
This is probably the most common way I’ve heard of people get interested
in intuition. They have an experience of some kind that makes them wonder.
It stretches their beliefs about the world or themselves in some way.
After a few experiences like that they really start to think about it..
Think about it now for a moment. What unusual experiences have you had.
Any of the ones I mentioned above? Others? What did you do about it? Chances
are if you’re reading this article you’re at least thinking
about it, perhaps wondering. That’s a great place to start! Feeling
the sense of wonder can open into curiosity, which leads to exploration,
then to more experiences. So keep wondering.
But meanwhile, there’s lots you can do.
Firstly, no secondly, the first part is WONDERING! Did I emphasize that
yet? Keep wondering, stay curious. What was that experience you had? Think
about it again, remember. Secondly, if you enjoy reading, there are some
great books available. (I’ve included a short list of some of my
favorite books at the end of this article.) Read what other people say;
hear what they’ve experienced. When you hear other people’s
stories you’ll realize you are not as strange as you think! In fact
you may even be normal. (Well hopefully not too normal!) Then, start practicing.
Don’t wait for the next spontaneous event to occur. Create one. There
are many ways of doing this.
I have learned that becoming aware of ourselves goes hand in hand with
learning intuition. If you’re doing any self-enrichment practice,
keep at it. This includes, yoga, relaxation, dream work Tai Chi and other
martial arts, art in any form, or any other creative endeavor. All of
these practices help us become more aware of how we perceive, how we think,
feel and act in the ordinary world. The way we sense and perceive things
normally is closely related to intuitive perception. Can you imagine a
rose right now? What does it feel like? Smell like? Can you see it’s
shape? This is the same way intuitive perceptions come into our awareness.
You could think of intuition as if you’re remembering something you’ve
never experienced before.
But as you become aware of how you perceive things, you will begin to
recognize the difference between perception and imagination. Perceptions
tend to be, quick, moving, and changing. Our minds grasp stimulus very
quickly and move on. Whereas imagination tends to be more stable, more
concrete, evolving slowly. How about that rose, can you hold it clearly
in your mind? That’s a quality of imagination.
But how exactly do you learn to tell the difference? Perhaps the most
important part to any learning endeavor is feedback. For feedback you
find ways of checking your results. Is it working? Then change it. If
you’re learning to play an instrument, you hear when it sounds wrong,
and change what you did. With intuition it’s the same. When you get
feedback, you learn from experience when you’re right or not, when
you’re perceiving intuitively or imagining.
So here’s a simple exercise you can do. Remember a recent conversation
you had on the telephone with a close friend or a family member. You may
recall the sound of their voice, a phrase they used, or even your feelings
when talking with them. Those were real-time perceptions, they are already
in your memory. Now the next time you want to call that person, before
you do so, you can set up an experiment. Take a deep breath in, hold it
for a moment, then let it all the way out. Do this a few more times. Then
become aware of the room you are in. Look at the colors, listen to the
sounds, are there any smells? Notice what you are feeling. Are you warm?
Comfortable? Anxious or relaxed? Whatever you sense, just notice it without
labeling or judging. This is important! Just observe. The act of noticing
along with the deep breathing helps you shift into your right brain. I’ll
say more about this shift and why it’s important a little later.
For now, it brings you into the present. You can also do any of the self-enrichment
practices I mentioned earlier before you try this experiment. They will
help.
Then when you feel you are present and aware, just close your eyes and
ask yourself a question you want to know about this person. Are they home?
What will be the first words they say to you? Is there anything else you
want to know that you would normally ask them in person; remember to be
respectful of your friend. Did they get (the job, new car, etc. ) today?
Just ask one question at a time and wait for an answer. Notice whatever
you experience. Your intuitive perception can come into your awareness
in many different ways: a general feeling, a word, an image, a sound,
a smell, a feeling on your skin, and others. Whatever you are experiencing,
notice it and write it down. Usually the first perception that comes into
your mind is the most accurate. It doesn’t matter if your sensations
make sense or not. Your analytical mind may want to define it in some
way. But for now it doesn't need to make sense. It may take a little practice
to allow yourself to not know for a little while. But you can do this.
Then ask the next question. Ask as many as you want, noticing any perceptions
you have for each one.
Then when you’ve asked everything you want to know, when you written
down your perceptions, call your friend. If they answer, you’ve answered
your first question, you know they’re home. You can ask the other
questions that are on your mind. Remember to be respectful, share your
experiment with them. When you’re done talking, go back to your list.
Mark the correct and incorrect answers you had. Look over all your answers
again. Do you remember any sensations you had for the correct answers?
How about the others? How about the ones that didn’t seem right or
wrong? For now, just reflect on your experience. It doesn’t matter
if it makes sense. With practice you will learn. For now your subconscious
is already learning.
That’s a very simple exercise where you can get immediate feedback.
With practice, you will begin to learn what sensations you perceived beforehand
were accurate and which ones were your imagination. The reason to pay
attention to anything you experience is that you receive information in
many different ways. What happens when you’re at work and you get
a pleasant sense that reminds you of the feeling you get when you’re
with your friend? They may be thinking about you, call them and see. You’ll
never know unless you ask. You can at least say you were thinking of them
and make their day. Becoming intuitive is about learning to trust yourself,
whatever you sense or feel. You may not truly believe it is possible,
but by allowing yourself to try and see you can start convincing yourself.
Try it.
In the classes I teach on intuition, the main focus is similar - do it,
experience it, and learn from it. Relaxation, sensory awareness, and heightened
perception techniques are very helpful for cultivating intuition. But
there are other benefits as well. You learn about yourself, your thoughts
and feelings, how you perceive, what you enjoy. You even learn to see
the value of having other ways of thinking, like using the right side
of your brain.
I’ll briefly explain why this is important. The function of language
and speech is located in the left side of the brain of the majority of
people. (98% of right-handers and 66% of left-handers) Since these language
skills are so closely related to thinking, reasoning and other higher
mental functions the left side of the brain has long been considered the
dominant hemisphere. It certainly is dominant in our culture where logic
and reason play such an important role. But the right side of the brain
has equally important functions. It is where perceptual information is
processed - a key to developing intuitive perception. The right side can
be said to be intuitive, subjective (experiential), relational and time-free
whereas the left is verbal, rational, and on-time. (This is a simplified
view.) It’s important to recognize that both sides of the brain are
needed, both ways of processing information. But they are different.
How many times have you heard the phrase, “What you’re
saying makes sense but something doesn’t feel right.?” That’s
both sides of your brain processing the same information differently.
You can read Betty Edwards book listed at the end of this article for
more about this. Developing an ability to shift in and out of these different
modes of consciousness brings an increased richness to all aspects of
our lives, not just developing intuition. This is why creative people
tend to be more in touch with their intuition. They are used to crossing
over, balancing the left and right modes of thinking. It is a skill we
all can use.
Intuition is available to everybody. The way to learn it is mapped better
than ever before. But it is only from personal experience that each of
us will know the meaning of intuition. At a deeper level, developing intuitive
skills offers a much greater opportunity than simply satisfying the desires
of the cognitive mind. We can begin to grasp ideas such as non-locality,
holographic qualities in nature, even time, space and consciousness in
a way that has profound meaning. Experiencing intuition reminds us that
the world is profoundly rich, that wonder and awe are important parts
of to being human.
Patrick Marsolek researches and writes about intuition, hypnosis, and
altered states. As director of the Investigative Research Field Station,
(http://www.irfs.com) he is currently teaching Remote Viewing and Intuition
classes focusing on practical applications of intuitive skills. He is
also working on several archaeological research projects in Montana. Patrick
is a practicing hypnotherapist.
Suggested Reading
These are a few books that I’ve found valuable. They aren’t
all in print, but you should be able to find all of them through inter-library
loan. The first book listed by Dr. Radin is a must for the scientist or
skeptic or anyone who needs a proof of the existence of psychic phenomena.
The Conscious Universe - Dean Radin Ph.D. - The scientific truth of psychic
phenomena
The Holographic Universe - Michael Talbot - many applications to consciousness
The Psychic Paradigm - Beverly Jaegers - A practical down to earth guide
to experiencing intuition.
Mind Trek - Joseph McMoneagle - An insider’s view into Remote Viewing
with practical guidance.
Your Sixth Sense - Belleruth Naparstek - Another good practical guidebook.
Multidimensional Mind - Jean Millay Ph.D. - More on Remote viewing and
consciousness.
The Diviner’s Handbook - Tom Graves - A practical, lucid guide to
dowsing.
Drawing on the Right Side of the Brain - Betty Edwards - Good consciousness
building tools also.
Megabrain - Michael Hutchison - Tools and techniques for brain growth
and mind expansion.
Copyrite 2000 - Patrick Marsolek